Before heading to Korea, I was the most prepped I’d ever been for a trip. For the last few years, my ongoing obsessions have been League of Legends and K-pop, both of which have led me to many activities and friends. I figured that going to the source could only result in an out of body experience. In addition to watching a whole lot of YouTubes about Korean history, doing the usual run through of movies and books and podcasts, I had taken ten weeks of conversational Korean at the local adult school. I was ready! The Birth of Korean Cool: How One Nation Is Conquering the World Through Pop Culture, Euny Hong (2014) Crying in H Mart, Michelle Zauner (2021) Korea’s Place in the Sun, Bruce Cumings (1997) Was it strange that nearly everyone we spoke with said “Two weeks in Seoul? You’re not going anywhere else?” (This was repeated to us often, by taxi drivers there, friends, etc.) Apparently people don’t go to Seoul for two weeks. Frankly, I had pushed for a month there, but was talked down...
For my final week in CDMX, a city I was ready to return to super soon already, I had two friends dropping in from San Diego and Tijuana, for a wedding that weekend. They were to arrive Thursday, so I knew I had to get as much writing done as possible. So on Monday, I laid low and worked, and then emerged to catch my friend at El Pescadito for fish tacos and a walk around the neighborhood. She was sort of working and I ended up following her around as she ran errands. First, to her English school to pay tuition, then we rode the rush hour subway to the end of the line for her to pick up items from a craftsman — he was a no show — before going downtown to Zocolo for a look see and cafe time. Then when it got late, I rode the bus back with her to her neighborhood, so I could see where she lived. The twenty minute ride took us out to an area that was slightly more suburb-y, but definitely still city-like. So that was super fun and simulated exactly what I like to do in cities. The su...