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Why "Atelman?"

My niece called me "atelman" for a long time because she couldn't say "uncle Jon." And then AMR made her keep saying "nooooo" afterwards because she was shutting me down from many things.... feeding her, reading to her, interacting anything. Sometimes she would just preemptively say "atelman nooooo" when I walked in the door. Kids, gotta love'em.

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